This
morning, my husband and I were surprised with a telephone call from the
US Army, Inspector General's office. I had submitted several letters
complete with documentation about the whereabouts of my son's ashes. I
will be receiving a packet to pursue exhumation and DNA testing of the
ashes of my ex-husband to see if they have been mixed with my son's
ashes as proclaimed. If they are, we will be pursuing a major lawsuit
against all parties involved. I am so grateful to my adult bully who
provided much of this information and is filed court record. I will be
pursuing this to the fullest extent of the law. For many years, I have
been perceived as weak but as promised, the secrets are beginning to be
revealed.
My
ex-husband was a bully but I know that he was controlled by his wife.
His wife was in rehab four different times for alcohol addiction. My
son told me of times when he was as young as 13 years old, driving down
the hill from their home to the corner grocery gas station and
purchasing wine for her. My ex-husband had been addicted to
prescription pain killers for years, even when we were married. They
were mixed with alcohol. It is rumored that when my ex-husband passed
away it was his wife that gave him the drugs for the overdose. He was
due to divorce her and had already made arrangements to purchase a
houseboat to live on away from her. Within a few days, he had passed
away. I was given no opportunity to be involved in the funeral
arrangements of my son and in fact, at first, was not even listed in the
obituary. I fought for this right and now I am continuing on in my
other rights. I am sure this will become very embarrassing for the
parties involved. I had joint custody of my son, he had resided with me
when his father rejected him. Despite the writings of my adult bully,
child support had been paid off for many years. Of course, it wasn't
until recent that my adult bully admits to paying child support, even
today, yet for years condemned me for doing so. But I am sure licensed
ministers are allowed latitude that others are not.
I
remember on Friday evening going to my ex-husband's home to pick up my
son for my visitation time. I was told that I was not allowed to pick
him up by the wife. I said, "Fine", I will take this up with my
attorney on Monday morning! She grabbed my son, young at the time, and
literally threw him down four cement steps onto the grass below yelling
for me to take him. I would have never treated anyone's child in this
way. My son spoke of going into his father's room, searching through
his dresser drawers and finding empty envelopes of all of the gifts
cards that I had sent him for Holidays and birthdays. He was told that I
never sent anything. When he came to live with me, he accused me of
never paying child support. I pulled out the folders of all
correspondence and receipts and showed him that his child support had
been paid off years before, he broke down crying and hugged me for an
hour. He had been told he could not have the nice things that his
step-brother did because I never paid support. I also showed him
several folders full of copies of the envelopes and gift cards as well
as the receipts for them, as I knew one day I would have to prove myself
to him. What a horrible cruel act to do to a child. All of these
documents along with custody papers, my birth certificate, my son's
birth certificate, have been sent to the military to back up my story.
The story so different than that publicly proclaimed by an woman who is
twisted and backwards.
When
my son passed away, a part of my heart died. He was my blue-eyed,
curly blonde-haired, who called me "mama". He was conflicted; hurt by a
father who told him lies and hurt because he was never allowed to spend
the time with his mother that he wanted to. How selfish we can become
as parents and in the end, it is our children that pay the price. Even
in death, he was kept from me. No more; the blessings of strength and
perseverance will prove my story. I will pursue this until it meets
with truth, dignity, and a righteous end. Those who thought that they
have gotten away with the lies will find the lies circling them, ready
to pounce, and ready to inflict the hurt and pain that they have
caused. The news will soon be worldwide as I continue in my firm
resolve.
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